I agree with Lurker....this SHOULD be fun and not something you feel compelled to do at the cost of LIVING! I think that helping your Mother move (kudos to you for being such a wonderful daughter) will give you a bit of a break from solving and you'll find that life goes on....even without cryptograms
Some of us who play are retired (myself) or partially so, which gives us a lot more time to play. But while it's fun to be in the top 10, that is never my objective....I play because it keeps my brain working and I have fun doing it.
I hope the move goes smoothly. Moving has got to be the biggest PITA in the world!